What kind of attitude should we have? How should we 'be'?
We find our answer in the Word. Matthew 5 tells us...by way of something we call the Beatitudes.
"Now when he saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to Him, 2and He began to teach them, saying:
3Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
5Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.
6Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness,
for they will be filled.
7Blessed are the merciful, for they shall be shown mercy.
8Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
9Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called the sons of God.
10Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
11Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 12Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you."
I'm not going to go through each one...but note the very first one "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven." That was not just a random choice for first place. I'm sure Jesus didn't have all of the beatitudes in a hat and pick one to see which one got to be first in line!
You have to be poor in spirit, in order to be able to have the other 'attitudes'. You have to be able to give up your 'will' or surrender your life to Christ, in order to be truly merciful or pure in heart.
"Give up my will? Why would I want to do that??", you may ask.
Ah...there is a second part to that first beatitude. "Theirs is the kingdom of God"! The kingdom of God begins in your heart, the moment you surrender your life to Him. You slowly begin to see things differently than you used to...the way God sees them. The relationship with the Father begins. Through prayer and the Word, He begins to change you until one day you notice that the other "attitudes" are YOUR attitudes.
And it all began with a poor and humble spirit.